Pen & Paper

 SELF OWNERSHIP How does it feel to be a side character in your movie? Doesn't sound cool, right? Then why do we let someone else decide what is favourable for us and what's not? Being a woman we are always taught that we should have some perimeters. I understand when our parents are concerned but other than them I surmise there should be no one who grips the rope of our life.  There are a lot of triumphant women in our society who adheres to probably their partners or the people they love and admire. Sometimes maybe they advise us because they want us to be secure and prudent, however not every time they are supposed to be right! You should always do whatever you feel is right.  I've been involved in a relationship where my partner was excessively dominant. He instructed me to wear loose clothes, not to apply lipsticks or eyeliners, it got even nastier when he told me that my feet look much better in sandals than shoes. I ultimately gave it a thought that he adores me and